From wolves to origami: Valentine’s plans that break the mold

By LAURA SCHILLER 

Here it is again — Valentine’s Day. That Hallmark-imposed holiday we either love or hate. We love it if we’re in love, especially if the spark is newly ignited; we hate it if we’re single — or worse, newly single and still nursing a broken heart. And then there are those of us in the middle: happily partnered and perfectly content to show affection, but less thrilled by the pressure of roses, obligatory chocolates and the scramble for dinner reservations at an overcrowded restaurant offering an overpriced prix-fixe menu. (Sidenote to my husband: keep the reservation, darling.)

This year, for better or worse, the holiday falls on a Saturday, leaving an entire weekend to celebrate together. You can start Friday night and stretch things into Sunday morning — staying out late, sleeping in and savoring the flexibility weekends allow. That might mean a romantic breakfast or brunch instead of dinner, cooking at home or skipping the meal altogether in favor of something unexpected and enjoyable. Here are a few ideas.

Mating and dating: winter wolf howl 

At the Wolf Conservation Center, located at 7 Buck Run, South Salem, you and your mate can wander at dusk among wolves during the one time of year they pair up — winter, not just Valentine’s Day, as it turns out. The WCC is offering a special adults-only sunset walk Saturday, Feb. 14, at 5 p.m, where visitors can learn about (and even howl with) the endangered wolf breeding pairs in residence. You’ll meet wolves such as Nikai, Silas and Kinari, and learn about the mythology, biology and ecology surrounding these fascinating animals. Wine and light snacks are included. Other Valentine’s events with the wolves are planned for the weekend. 

For registration and more information visit  nywolf.org.

Howl with laughter at a comedian

If you like the idea of howling, you might also enjoy howling with laughter when comedy legend Jon Lovitz takes the stage at the Ridgefield Playhouse, located at East Ridge Road, Ridgefield, Conn. One of the most recognizable comedians of the past three decades, Lovitz earned an Emmy nomination during his time on ”Saturday Night Live” where he created a parade of side-splitting characters — most memorably Tommy Flanagan, the Pathological Liar, whose signature line “Yeah…that’s the ticket!” became instant shorthand for absurd exaggeration. He has appeared in more than 40 films, often stealing scenes with his unmistakable voice and smug-but-lovable delivery. It’s a perfect way to share love and laughter —and chances are, you’ll hear a Valentine’s Day joke or two. 

For tickets and more information, visit  ridgefieldplayhouse.org.

Groove with the dogs

Staying on the canine theme — but trading howls for grooves — some very different dogs are heading to The Capitol Theatre, located at 149 Westchester Ave., Port Chester, for a Valentine’s Day performance. Dogs In A Pile is a fast-rising quintet from Asbury Park, N.J., known for high-energy shows that blend psychedelic-tinged jazz, funk, rock and Americana. The band takes its name from a lyric in the Grateful Dead song “He’s Gone”: “Cat on a tin roof, dogs in a pile / Nothing left to do but smile, smile, smile.”

While Dogs In A Pile has forged its own sound, the name tips a hat to their jam-band roots, a vibe that pulses through their shows. For an upgraded experience, the theatre’s VIP package offers early entry to Garcia’s Bar, premium stage views and access to a private bar throughout the night, an appealing alternative to a stuffy five-star restaurant. 

For tickets and more information, visit thecapitoltheatre.com.

Fold stuff together

Sometimes lovers can’t quite find the words to express how they truly feel — and that’s where origami comes in. If you’re craving an activity that’s quieter and more hands-on, consider folding paper together at the Mount Kisco Public Library, located at 100 East Main St., Mount Kisco, Saturday, Feb. 14, from 2 to 3:30 p.m. From classic paper hearts to whimsical dog ears, origami offers a surprisingly intimate way to slow down and create something together. Take the spirit home afterward: fold a few more shapes, fold some burritos for dinner, and maybe even fold your arms around each other. All are welcome, and no registration is required. For more information, visit mountkisoclibrary.org.

Paint each other flowers

Why buy expensive doomed flowers when you can create your own bouquets, ones that will last for centuries. Petite Art Studio, located at 23 Valley Road, No. 2, Katonah, is offering a pre–Valentine’s Day Thursday night (Feb. 12) session focused on painting sumi ink bouquets. Sumi ink is a traditional black ink used in East Asian calligraphy and brush painting, prized for its expressive depth and elegance. Cheese will be provided, but bring your own bottle of wine to share as your love blossoms on the easel. It’s a relaxed way to celebrate your love and connect. And who knows? You might befriend someone who knows the hostess at a fine dining establishment and can score you a quiet, romantic table on Valentine’s Day.

For registration and more information, visit petiteartstudio.com.